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                        總有一天,你得學會悲傷

                        時間:2019-04-04 作者:未詳 點擊:

                          每次坐飛機的時候,我都會有些擔心,雖然空難發生的概率極低,但是依舊會在上飛機前默默祈禱。
                          
                          最嚴重的一次顛簸是有一次從上海飛海南的時候,飛機上下來回震動了好幾次,小孩哇哇地直哭,身旁坐的女生像坐過山車一樣死死抓緊座位扶手,那個時候,我唯一想到的是,我電腦里還有沒寫完的稿子,怎么辦?
                          
                          慶幸的是,最后也并沒有發生什么,飛機還是如約到達了,下飛機后我和朋友說起自己的擔心,類似于要是飛機真的墜落到了某個荒無人煙的地方怎么辦,大家逃離的時候肯定得拋棄身上已有的物品,那時候生存就會變為難題,朋友笑我杞人憂天,說飛機上有黑匣子,即使真的出現了類似的情況,在中國境內,也不會那么糟糕。
                          
                          我還是忍不住在心里打了個問號。
                          
                          后來,有一天我在朋友家,朋友正在玩一款叫作《風之旅人》的游戲,我坐在旁邊看著他在沙漠中跋涉,來來回回走了好久,沒有NPC,沒有任務,沒有任何怪獸或者需要處理的事情,只是單純地行走,茫茫沙漠中,一個同伴也沒有,我問他,這個游戲的意義何在?
                          
                          他說,沒什么意義,就是一直走,你總會覺得能夠遇到一個人,但是遇不到,就繼續走下去,這種心理很奇怪,人說到底還是害怕孤獨,當你真正在荒無人煙的環境中,你能想到的是什么?一定是,能不能再找到一個人。
                          
                          《南極絕戀》里的故事也是如此,富豪吳富春因為生意要前往南極,結果遇到了空難,雖然和其中一名叫如意的女研究員活了下來,但他們迎來的,正是這樣方圓百里空無一人的茫茫白雪。
                          
                          在兩人被困的那段日子里,男主吳富春遭遇了幾次瀕臨死亡的時刻,而他通過自我意識、本性良知、責任感一一克服了下來。整個過程驚險而震撼,像是人與自然多年來一直沒有消退的對抗。
                          
                          故事中最動情的時刻,莫過于吳富春每次出門去尋找救援,那一句“我走了”,與如意的那句“早點回來”。想想在白茫茫一片的南極極地,只有兩個人,那種惺惺相惜就變得格外動人,雖然如意看不慣吳富春的“俗氣”,吳富春也不喜歡如意的“假高貴”,但在生存尚且沒有希望的情況下,他們就這樣成了彼此唯一生存下去的欲望。
                          
                          每一次出行,他都會和自己對話,和自己爭辯,把自己想說又不敢說的心里話說出來,回想自己的過去,那幾十年的生活,他要讓自己看清事實,卻又把這些全部消化,不留一絲一毫表現在如意面前,那種越是逞強,越是透露出的悲傷,才是一個男人成熟的標志。
                          
                          印象最深的是,他原本為了補充營養而想要捕食的小企鵝,最后卻成了他和如意的“兒子”,當他們自己已經沒有食物可吃的時候,只能將小企鵝送回大海,小企鵝始終歡快地看著吳富春時,他才終于說出了心里話——
                          
                          “傻瓜,總有一天,你得學會悲傷。”這句話既像是對企鵝說的,也像是對自己所說。
                          
                          最近天災人禍,除了各種祈福,更多也是接受后的努力,我們總是說要勇敢些,要堅強些,才可能成為強大的人,但是后來才知道,其實人真的是經歷過痛楚,學會了悲傷,才長大成人的。
                          
                          總有一天,你要學會悲傷。
                          
                          這是每一個人成長中默默感受的一句話,比起盲目的樂觀,逆境而上的悲傷也許是我們最應該走出的第一步。

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