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                        人生怎么發球,我都接

                        時間:2019-05-10 作者:未詳 點擊:

                          面對挫折,是我從5歲進入體校開始的一門必修課。可這件事,并沒有因為我經驗豐富,就變得簡單一點。
                          
                          2010年,在莫斯科的世乒賽團體決賽中,我輸給了馮天薇,中國隊最終敗給了新加坡隊。那一年我20歲,第一次擔當女團主力。我的教練被下調到二隊,網上到處是我輸球哭了的照片。當時我覺得,這就是我人生中最大的一個坎兒。
                          
                          不僅是輸,而且是在巔峰對決中一敗涂地。很長一段時間,我把自己封閉起來。我抗拒每天的訓練,在之后的許多比賽里打得亂七八糟。有一天,我哭著給媽媽打電話,問她:“為什么我要打乒乓球?為什么我不可以像別的女孩一樣?”我覺得每天的訓練都特別痛苦,早上醒來第一個念頭就是:不想去,不愿意拿起球拍。可我跟自己說:“今天我去練一堂,哪怕明天我不練了,至少,我今天往前挪了一步。”就這樣,我在失敗的黑暗里,或慢或快,走了好幾年。
                          
                          2016年,又是在奧運會女單決賽上,我遇到了2012年的對手——我的隊友李曉霞。這一次我贏了,所有人都說,四年前的那次失敗,丁寧該放下了吧。所有人都覺得,里約奧運會的那枚金牌是我戰勝挫折的節點。可是如果問我,我反而很難說清自己是在哪一個點走出來的。
                          
                          我覺得,這是面對挫折的時候最殘酷的一件事:人們只看到你的摔倒和爬起,但你很難去告訴別人,在摔倒和爬起之間,你走過了多么漫長的一段路。很多人在我耳邊說:“沒關系,丁寧,加油啊!”
                          
                          可是反反復復、持久不愈的疼痛,還得你自個兒承擔。就好像有一個繭困住了我,我并不覺得自己是用巨大的能量讓它一瞬間炸裂。我其實花了很長很長的時間,在繭里不斷地蠕動,再蠕動,一次不行,兩次,兩次不行,三次,五十次,一百次……突然有一天,我發現,哎?這個繭好像松了。
                          
                          教練說:“丁寧,你要做到心如磐石。”可是,無數次比賽的勝負在全國乃至全世界的關注下被放大,磐石哪有那么好當?
                          
                          今天,我想大聲告訴和我一樣的青年一句“反雞湯”的話——放心吧,當你越過一個坑,前頭還會有更大的坑等著你。
                          
                          我從莫斯科的坑里爬出來沒多久,又掉入了倫敦的坑。現在,我爬出來了,對吧?可未來,我肯定還會遇到更大的坑。比如,我今年28歲了,退役后要做些什么?我還能像在球場上那樣如魚得水嗎?我從來不敢對這件事盲目樂觀。
                          
                          在我看來,人生就是一個坑接著一個坑,咱多半不可能都優雅漂亮地跳過去,大多得摔進去,再自個兒爬出來。絕大多數時候,我們爬很長時間都爬不出去,然后就會自我否定。
                          
                          但是其實我特別想說,越難的時候,越要看到自己每一點細微的努力和改變。你憑著這股韌勁兒,不斷掙扎,某一天就忽然發現自己好像換了一個人,變得更平靜也更有力量。
                          
                          體育精神,遠不只是輸贏,就像奧運冠軍遠不只是金牌一樣。我只相信,黑暗中,不要停下腳步,要自己去尋找光。

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