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                        智者的四句箴言,自己與別人的詮釋

                        時間:2014-03-16 作者:未詳 點擊:

                          一位少年去拜訪一位年長的智者。他問:我如何才能變成一個自己愉快,也能夠給別人愉快的人。
                          
                          智者笑著望著他說:孩子,我送你四句話。第一句話是,把自己當成別人。你能說說這句話的含義嗎?少年回答說:是不是說,在我感到痛苦憂傷的時候,就把自己當成別人,這樣痛苦就自然減輕了;當我欣喜若狂之時,把自己當成別人,那些狂喜也會變得平和中正一些?智者微微點頭,接著說,第二句話把別人當成自己。
                          
                          少年沉思一會兒,說:這樣就可以真正同情別人的不幸,理解別人的需求,并且在別人需要的時候給予恰當的幫助?
                          
                          智者兩眼發光,繼續說道:第三句話,把別人當成別人。
                          
                          少年說:這句話的意思是不是說,要充分地尊重每個人的獨立性,在任何情況下都不可侵犯他人的核心領地?
                          
                          智者哈哈大笑:很好,很好。儒子可教也!第四話是,把自己當成自己。這句話理解起來太難了,留著你以后慢慢品味吧。少年說:我這句話的含義,我是一時體會不出。但這句話之間有許多自相矛盾之處,我用什么才能把它們統一起來呢?
                          
                          智者說:很簡單,用一生的時間和經歷。少年沉默了很久,然后叩首告別。
                          
                          后來少年變成了壯年人,又變成了老人。再后來在他離開這個世界很久以后,人們還時時提起他的名字。人們都說他是位智者。因為他是一個愉快的人,而且也給每一個見到過他的人帶來了愉快!
                          
                          智者回答了四句話,細心的人請慢慢體味:1、把自己當成別人 2、把別人當成自己 3、把別人當成別人 4、把自己當成自己
                          
                          我們可以這樣理解:1、在感到痛苦的時候,把自己當成別人,這樣痛苦自然減輕了;當欣喜若狂時,把自己當成別人,那些狂喜也會變得平靜;2、可以真正同情別人的不幸,理解別人的需求,而且在別人需要的時候給與恰當的幫助;3、要充分的尊重每個人的獨立性,在任何情形下都不可侵犯他人的核心領地;4、需要自己慢慢品味。
                          
                          四句話之間相互矛盾,若要真正明白需要用一生的時間和經歷。
                          
                          這四句話應該是修身養性的四個階段:1、學會站在別人的角度看待自己(走出自己);2、以看待自己的眼光看待別人(以己推人);3、尊重他人(人格獨立)。4、重視自己(人格自主)。

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